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The Essential Ingredients of Seduction ( The Love Diet)
By Mabel Iam

The Art of Seduction

Seduction is the key to success in love, in business, in friendship, and in life in general. In the science of conquest, everyone needs to exercise the same level of discipline, and put forth the same effort, no matter what their physical appearance may be. As in any art, seduction requires training and practice, education, and a clear understanding of human psychology, at the conscious and subconscious levels.

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There are all kinds of seduction styles, depending on people’s individual personalities, but the two essential ingredients that no one can go without at the critical moment of seducing and captivating another person are:

The smile

The smile has a uniquely seductive power to conquer anyone. The best kind of smile is one that communicates sincerity, since a false smile is easily detected and always inspires mistrust.

Just like the gaze, a smile can say many different things. It doesn’t just express happiness, it can also indicate anxiety, insecurity, and even hostility in disguise. A weak or vacillating smile that doesn’t reveal the teeth and is accompanied by an insecure gaze is a sign of timidity and a lack of self-confidence. A repressed smile can send mixed signals, especially, when the other person doesn’t know why we’re smiling, they may think we’re making fun of them.

The look

This is most people’s favorite method, because it’s the most efficient, for men and women. Casting an effective seductive gaze requires elegance and subtlety, and it can say more than a thousand words. Maintaining eye contact for at least three seconds can inspire trust or interest in the other.

A clear, sincere, direct, open gaze can attract and fascinate even a person who has been a little resistant to your charms. Make sure that your look always conveys a certain sweetness, calm, class and generosity, so that you always radiate confidence, tranquility and tenderness.

The duration of time that someone will hold our gaze can also provide some clues. Insecure people will meet your eyes for less time. When people talk about personal issues, they tend to make less eye contact. If someone pays us a compliment, it’s just the opposite: we will maintain eye contact to try to determine whether that person is being sincere.

The way that we look at each other is just important as actual physical contact. If the look is a blend of mystery and passion, and is delivered with a fresh, provocative smile, then it will immediately succeed in having a mesmerizing, attractive effect.

(BASED ON THE BOOK THE LOVE DIET BY MABEL IAM)

© Copyright Mabel Iam ® 2005. All Rights Reserved / Todos los derechos reservados.

Mabel Iam is best known as a psychotherapist and expert in relationships, but she's also a favorite advisor to politicians and celebrities, and the author of several award-winning, best-selling books around the world, Mabel Iam has rapidly become the number one self-help expert in the US. Iam produces successful TV and radio shows and is a keen hostess.

Mabel has come a long way from the publication of her first book back in 1995. Her 2003 book Sex and the Perfect Lover was published in English as well as Spanish and then translated into around 10 other languages, including German, French (for Europe and Canada), Hungarian, Turkey, Romanian, Czech, Malaysia, Portuguese (for Brazil and Portugal, where it also rapidly became a best seller) and Russian. Sex and the Perfect Lover has ranked first in its category at Amazon.com and has been a public's favorite since 2004.
This book, together with Sex and the Erotic Lover, made its way to India, the place from where Mabel took her inspiration to write, coming thereby full circle in her career.

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